In one form or the other, we have all experienced rejection. We all long to be loved, we long to be wanted, and we long to belong. However, we don’t realize we have always been loved, we’ve always been wanted, as Song of Solomon 2:16 tells us, “My beloved is mine and I am His …” Indeed, I am His- we belong to Him. While others have rejected us, He wholeheartedly accepts us.
He died to make us His own. No one love us like He does.
Confession: Jesus, I am Yours and You are mine.
In Christ we have a love that can never be fathomed; a life that can never die; a righteousness that can never be tarnished; a peace that can never be understood; a rest that can never be disturbed; a joy that can never be diminished; a hope that can never be disappointed; a glory that can never be clouded; a light that can never be darkened; a happiness that can never be interrupted; a strength that can never be enfeebled; a purity that can never be defiled; a beauty that can never be marred; a wisdom that can never be baffled; and resources that can never be exhausted.
If that is true-and it is-how could we ever go anywhere else?
As part of the family of God, we are told to clothe ourselves in compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. (Col 3:12) It’s like wearing a particular brand of clothing… soon enough people will begin to recognise you for what you wear. Our ‘position’ as Christians should never cause us to think we are above anyone else, but rather it awakens within us the ability to support, help and shoulder the burden of others… bring hope in heartache, peace in fear, help in time of need, and ultimately the life giving power of the gospel to a hungry and thirsty world.
Sometimes situations and people can cause us to feel unloved and even rejected. The enemy wants us to feel isolated, dejected and depressed. But look what the Lord says, “I have loved you with an everlasting love. I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.” Jeremiah 31:3 No matter what it looks like or feels like, He loves you and is always thinking of you. Remember He died to make you His child. His death on the cross is proof enough that you are worth more than anything in His eyes.
“Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.” Galatians 1:10
How do you overcome the fear of rejection? You start by putting God first. Then, you put the opinions of others in a proper place. Don’t overvalue what they say. What they say about you doesn’t change what God says about you. Look what God says about you, “You are precious and honoured in my sight, and I love you.” Isaiah 43:4
Let us not take to heart what people say about us, but know the love and acceptance of God and set our goal to please God and serve Him all the more.